Everyone want people always like them. You also want. But you make some mistakes for which everyone start hating you. And they start ignoring you. So why they do so ? Here are the reasons;-
(1) IF YOU ARE A NEGATIVE PERSON:-
Suppose your friends/colleguaes suggest something to do or somewhere to go , but you say that it's impossible, no one can do this, ot can't be. If you give this type of negative suggestions always, then your colleagues start ignoring you. So stay positive always. But remember that if they are asking to do some illegal work the say ‘no’ to them.
(2) IF YOU ARE TOO NEEDY :-
Generally people love that person who is independent. So if you are dependent to others for a little work, then people start ignoring you. So be independent always.
(3) IF YOU ARE TOO OPINIONATE:-
Giving your opinion & giving some suggestions is good. But if you put your opinion everywhere whether there is no need, then people don't want to spend time with you. So give your opinion, when there is need of that. And always give opinions on those things on which you have proper knowledge. If you don't have any knowledge about something, then don't say a little word about that.
(4) BEING TOO SELFISH & DISHONEST:-
People like the person who is always humble. But if you find your profit in every work, whether other is facing problem for that then your colleagues start hating you. Andif you lie in every moment then People start ignoring you so don't be that guy who is dishonest. Always be humble & make honesty as your big weapon.
(5) IF YOU ARE BOASTING TOO MUCH :-
Discussing about your achievements, future goals, dreams with others is very good thing. But making that a habit or telling too much about your goals to others is very bad. People feel boaring when you tell more about this. And remember that in a communication, if someone feels boaring then he/she left the communication. So don't make feel someone boaring in a communication.
(6) IF YOU DON'T LISTEN TO ANYONE:-
If you are a person who talk only about yourself then stop doing this. This is big communication mistake, if you talk only about you then people started ignoring you. If you want to get success in life then be a good listener. Listen to others, try to talk too less about yourself. Before giving your opinion listen others first and then speak.
So if you add some characteristics like humbleness, honesty, positivity, independency, then you can be loved by all. So make the above characteristics as your biggest weapon. And start your journey.
Best of luck . Keep going towards your goals.
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